Sunday, March 31, 2013

Four valuable lessons from a Tea bag


Here are four valuable lessons from a tea bag:

from email.

1.     You will notice that some tea bags have very nice-looking labels, while others have very ordinary looking ones. Some have delicate silk tassels while others have ordinary strings. But here's the thing to remember: The quality of the beverage is determined by the tea inside the bag -- not by the label or the string. What's true for tea bags is true for all of us too. The titles, the clothes we wear and the cars we drive are like the label and the string. They may make you look nice. But what really matters is the kind of person you are, deep down within. Your beliefs and your attitude -- that's what defines the person you are. The tea masters know that to make a great drink, they need to focus on the tea. Not on the label and the string. Focus on being a good human being. Fix your attitude. Get your values right. And don't fret about the small stuff.

2.     Imagine you have the best tea leaves in the world. And you put it into a bag that's impermeable. It won't work. You just won't be able to make a cup of tea. For the tea bag to work, it needs to be porous. You need the tea leaves and the water to come in contact. In our lives too, we cannot survive and thrive in isolation. Be careful not to build a wall around yourself that prevents people from reaching out to you. You need to be able to touch other people too. Else, all that's inside of you will remain wasted -- untouched by all the good around you, and unable to impact all that's around you. The tea was meant to mingle with the water just as all of us were designed to work with other people, with teams, with society at large.

3.     If you take a cup of lukewarm water and put a tea bag in it -- you won't know how strong the tea is. To get the best flavor, you need to put the tea bag into hot water. And then the real strength will show. Likewise, the true character of a person actually shines through in adversity. How does a person behave under pressure, when he is in 'hot water'? The hot water test is a good one -- to judge the quality of the tea and the true character of human beings.

4.     They know it will give them a chance to show their true worth. So next time you see a challenge, a tough situation, think like a tea bag and dive headlong into it. It may be the opportunity you've been waiting for to show what you are capable of. Some of us are so scared of the hot water that we stay away from it, too scared of getting scalded. Afraid of failure. Don't let that happen to you. Give yourself a chance to show the world what you are really all about! Next time you pick up a cup of tea, enjoy the moment. And think of the lessons too.

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Panchang - Good vara, tithi,


  • http://www.mypanchang.com/interpret.html
  • General purpose good Day (Vaar):  Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday.
    General purpose good Tithi:  2 (Dwitiya), 3 (Tritiya), 5 (Panchami), 7 (Saptami), 10 (Dashami), 11 (Ekadashi), 13 (Trayodashi -- shukla paksha only). 1 (Prathama - Krishna Paksha Only). Please avoid Krishna Paksha 13 (Trayodashi), 14 (Chaturdashi), and Amavasya in all good work. Please also avoid Shukla paksha's 1 (Prathama) in all goog work. Please avoid rikta tithis 4-9-14 (From both paksha) in all good work.
    Good Tithi for Wedding:  All days (Vaara) are good for wedding. Please avoid Rikta 4-9-14, Krishna Trayodashi, Amavasya, Shukla Paksha prathama 1 tithi. Rest of tithis are good for weddings. According to some Rikta tithi 4-9-14 can be taken, but avoid 14 in krishna paksha.
    Good Tithi for Grahapravesha:  Avoid Sunday, and Tuesday (This is basic rule, relaxations exists, fortified lagna removes many doshas. Consult astrologer for advanced muhurtha). Avoid Shukla paksha's 1-4-9-14, and Krishna Paksha's 4-9-13-14-Amavasya. Rest tithis are good for Grahapravesha.
    Good Tithi for Buying a New Vehicle:  3,4,5,7,10,11,13,15. Avoid Amavasya.
  • Note : There are 4 important tithis which do not require any muhurtam, since each
    of the entire tithi is considered good. Any important work like wedding etc. can be
    done on these tithis. These are:

        1 Chaitra Shukla Pratipada (Prathama)
        2 Akshya Tritiya
        3 Vijaya Dasami
        4 Kartika Shukla Pratipada (Prathama)

    However, Rahukalam, Yamagandam and Gulika Kalam should be avoided even on
    these tithis.

  • The Tithis are divided into five groups:

       1. Nanda (Ananda or Joyous) tithis - Prathipada (1st), Shasti (6th) and Ekadashi
    (11th) bestows happiness and joy

       2. Bhadra (Arogya or Mangala or Healthy) tithis - Dwitiya (2nd), Saptami (7th)
    and Dwadashi (12th) good for stating new work

       3. Jaya (Victory) Tithis -Tuesday Tritiya (3rd), Ashtami (8th ) and Trtayodashi
    (13th) good for winning over enemies

      4. Rikkta (Loss or Nashta) Tithis - Saturday Chathurthi (4th), Navami (9th) and
    Chaturdasi (14th)  not good for any important work, so it is avoided

      5. Poorna (Sampoorna - Full Moon or New Moon) Tithis -Thursday Panchami
    (5th), Dashami (10th) and Amavasya (15th)(New Moon) or Poornima (15th) very

    good  to complete all jobs
The next line is nakshatra. The Nakshatra name is followed by N: The time next to the nakshtra indicates when it is going to end. The same rules for tithi timings applies to nakshatras as well. (Rohinii 09:02:42). Nakshatra is also known as star. so if you are looking for today's star use this one. Please avoid Aswini nakshatra on Tuesday, Rohini nakshatra on Saturday, and Pushyami nakshatra on Thrusday for all graha pravesha, marraige, and travel muhurthas. Although these combination causes Amrit Siddhi yoga but, the same combination is not good for above said purposes. Unlike other online panchangam, all times presented in our panchangam have been adjusted for daylight saving time for North American/Candaian Panchangam. Please manually adjust for other places in the world where daylight saving time applies. A nakshatra is one of the 27 or 28 divisions of the sky, identified by the prominent star(s) in them, that the Moon passes through during its monthly cycle, as used in Hindu astronomy and astrology. Therefore, each represents a division of the ecliptic similar to the zodiac (13°20’ each instead of the 30° for each zodiac sign). The orbit of the moon is 27.3 days, so the Moon takes approximately one day to pass through each nakshatra.
General purpose good Nakshatras:  Ashwini, Rohini, Mrigashirsha, Punarvasu, Pushya, U.Phalguni, Hasta, Chitra, Swati, Anuradha, U.Shadha, Shravan, Dhanishtha, Shatabhisha, U.Bhadrapada, Revati. Please avoid your janma-nakshatra for all good works.
Good Nakshatras for Wedding:  Rohini, Mrigashirsha, Magha (Avoid 1st quarter), U.Phalguni, Hasta, Swati, Anuradha, Mula, U.Shadha, U.Bhadrapada, Revati (Avoid last quarter).
Good Nakshatras for Grahapravesha:  Rohini, Mrigashirsha, Pushya, U.Phalguni, Hasta, Chitra, Swati, Anuradha, U.Shadha, Shravana, Dhanishta, Shatabhisha, U.Bhadrapada, Revati.
Good Nakshatras for Buying a New Vehicle:  Ashwini, Rohini, Punarvasu, Pushya, U.Phalguni, Hasta, Chitra, Swati, Anuradha, U.Shadha, Shravana, U.Bhadra, Revati in the Shubha lagna (Ascendant) of Mithuna, Karka, Simha, Kanya, Vrischika, Dhanu, and Mina lagnam (Please refer to our lagna table to find these lagna, and panchanga to find nakshatra timings).
Good Nakshatras for Starting a New Job:  Vaar: Sunday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. Nakshatra: Rohini, U.Phalguni, U.Shadha, Dhanistha, Shatabhisha, U.Bhadrapada, Revati. In the muhurtha chart in the 1st, 10th or 11th house Sun and Mars. (Please refer to our lagna table to find these lagna, and panchanga to find nakshatra timings).
Tara bala:  To find a day is suitable for your muhurtha tarabalam is required. Count from your birth nakshatra to nakshatra of the muhurtha day you are seeking. Please avoid 1-3-5-7-10-12-14-16-19-21-23-25 nakshatra counting from your birth nakshatra. For example: If your birth nakshatra is swati, and today's nakshatra is aswhini, now counting from swati to ashwini it gives us the count of 14th Which is not a good tarabalam. Hence till ashwini nakshatra prevails that time is bad.